And since we’re here (on forgiveness that is) remember that chick in the mirror??? Yeah…her…she’s usually the one that needs your forgiveness the most. Send her some love. BIG love. Go ahead and do that now. SHE needs you. She needs Y-O-U!
And yes…send THEM love too. Even though…even though they hurt you. They wronged you. They lied to you. THEY LIED TO EVERYONE! They twisted facts. They stole from you. Robbed your heart. Your spirit. They took things that weren’t theirs to take. Forgive them anyway. Send them love anyway. Let it go. You made a mistake. An error in judgement. A wrong turn. You hurt someone. They hurt you. Mean, vile things were said…to you. About you. Why? What did you do to deserve this?!
Well you won’t do that again…
Or will you? Did you learn the lesson it was here to teach? Did you? Have you? Will you? Are you paying attention now? Have you accepted your responsibility now? Or is it all their fault? Still. Their Fault.
Because really you knew. You always knew. From the very beginning the signs were there. But you wanted to be right. You had to be right. Pointing fingers. Blame. Shame. Hurt. Guilt. Pain. It’s all there. But it feels so good to know…YOU. WERE. RIGHT.
Forgive them anyway. Send them love anyway…and let it go.
She is wise…SHE IS WISE. Do you know that now? Remember… remember when you said yes and it should have been no. You said no but wanted to say yes. What could you have done to change this; to turn it around? What were the signs? What did you hear? What did you ignore? Deep inside you heard her voice. And you didn’t pay attention. You heard her voice. She was trying to tell you…she was screaming…”DON’T DO IT. Say no. Turn around. Walk away. Don’t go. Bad vibes.” And you did it anyway. You squished her down. She was trying hard to get your attention. She wanted you to know. God she tried. She surely tried. She wanted you to listen…the signs were all there. “Back away. Don’t trust her. Don’t trust him. He lied (not the first time). He was late. She said she wouldn’t. She said she would. He didn’t listen to me when I said _______. He D-I-D-N-‘T HEAR me!” Responsibility. Truth. YOU know the truth.
Let. It. Go. …Time. To. Forgive.
Remember…yes…remember AND forgive them anyway. That was then, this is NOW. You are present now. You are here now because this is what you choose now. You know now. You are wise now. She is wise.
You do not have to hear air bouncing off of your eardrums. The voice of God speaks to you through your body, your vibes, the feelings that you feel…your gut…it knows…it always knows. Are you expanding or contracting? Do you feel bigger or smaller? Do you feel joy or dread? That’s your answer. She knows…she always knows… Listen to her.
And send them love. The point is to be FREE…always choose FREE.